May 9, 2015

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I thought I no longer need to set goals!

I thought I no longer need to set goals!

Goal-so-big-And I thought I do not need to set goals anymore.

Goal setting is such a basic concept for anyone who wants to achieve success in life, right?  I have set many goals in my life before and they do work because I take massive and continuous action towards creating my ideal life.

In the past 15 years of running my business, speaking and training tens of thousands of people, I thought I already have all and more than I ever dreamt of.  I have taught many people about goals setting, visualisations, ways to take action and ways to celebrate their every little success.  Never did I think only now do I understand in its totality.

In the past, I wanted to run a business that can value add to people in the area of financial intelligence, business, investments, self development etc.

I wanted to become a multimillionaire.

I wanted to own 100 properties.

I wanted to get married  and start a family.

Now I have them all by working with my team.  But why was there something missing? It is not that I am ungrateful.

In fact, I do the gratitude exercise everyday. I believe that’s why I have so much love and blessings along the way.

The fact is that I felt I that I have almost everything and nothing is missing.

However, something in my heart is still missing the adrenalin and excitement which I used to have previously.  What is this about?

I was in comfort zone.

In the Anthony Robbins Total Success program, I have discovered that success include ‘Science of Achievement’ and ‘Art of Fulfilment’.

Acheivement may not be Fulfilment. Some famous people are so successful and yet they feel depressed.

I realised that recently I do not have bigger goals that I can get EXCITED and OBSESSED with everyday! I lack OBSESSION!

I remembered how obsessed I was in the past.  People perceived me as diligent, proactive and massive action taker.  In the past my goals were my obsession!

NOW I need GOALS that scare the hell out me and get my adrenalin pumping when I think of it.

So here it is.  My goals now is to be international best selling author of books and be able to touch lives in mega ways.  Some of my role models are Louise Hay, Oprah Winfrey, Anthony Robbins, John Stamoulos, Dr Brian Weiss, Deepak Chopra, Wayne Dyer, Ekhart Tolle and  many, many,  more mentors,  gurus and friends.  The commonality is that they inspire lives that touches the core of the beings.

If you realised, most of these role models I mentioned are based in the West.  How about those from from Asia which made it internationally? Can I fill the shoe of being one of the most inspiring person  who can touch lives  from Asia region and reaching into international arena?  That’s a BLOODY SCARY thought!  All my ‘yada yada’ tells me it is impossible and many excuses came into my mind.

But Anthony Robbins says ‘IF YOU THINK YOU CAN’T, YOU MUST’, in his throaty voice.


So, let’s get off our butts and accomplish what we think we can’t.

Pls do write to me at if you would like to share your personal thoughts with me and those of you who need some private advice about how to improve your life, just email me your questions and I’ll do my best to reply for FREE!

Thanks Tony Robbins for kicking butts. You are not just awesome but phenomenal at kicking butts. We love you!

Thanks Richard Tan, Veronica Tan and Michael Burnette from Success Resources, the organiser of such life transforming events!


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  1. Alicia Hubilla says:

    Hi Wendy,

    I thank God for your life.
    You helped many people achieved
    their goals in life.



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